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Messages From Within

Welcome all!   The goal of this blog is to share perspective around our human journey, and to offer cultural programming rewiring. 

John Simonetta

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Relationships

Our Lives Depend on Relationships!

In relationships, it is not only about the support that we provide to others (and they provide to us), but it is about the personal growth we can have through these interactions.

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Judgement and Division

We are in a state of emergency! You are needed! You are needed to shine your light, see the commonality and bring us together as a supportive community.

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Forgiveness

Whether We Know It or Not, We Need It. We hold on to actions and events from the past that have caused us emotional pain. We can change our perception of these past actions and events so that we release the emotions associated with them. Forgiveness is this change of perspective, and it is so important because it enables the emotional release.

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Anxiety, Conflict, and Perspective: Part 2, Reframing

This post on my refrigerator door is the second agreement of The Four Agreements, by Don Miguel Ruiz. According to Ruiz, when someone says something against you, it is really their issue, their problem, unless you take it on.

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Anxiety, Conflict, and Perspective: Part 1, the Perception of Lack

Money can be the cause of serious stress in any relationship. My behavior caused serious conflict in our relationship and fueled my own anxiety. Additionally, this mentality negatively affected our family, including my children. This was part of my own stressful experience with a perception of lack (in my case, of money).

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Men’s Roles and What Could Be (Our Potential)

In the early years we assumed the roles of son, student, athlete. Later, we were on a track to be father, husband, breadwinner, and home provider. With all of these roles we assumed significant weight and responsibility. It was and is a heavy load.

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